Today I had a realization, the answer to a question I’ve
been asking for months, maybe even the past year and a half. Or at least part of
an answer… you may not be impressed, but I don’t particularly care, because
God is so good to me and he answers my prayers! On the other hand, maybe it
will help you too.
If you’ve asked me about my spiritual life recently (again,
maybe even within the last year and a half), I’ve probably mentioned that it’s
dry. Like, that's the overarching, raincloud-over-my-head, depressing theme. This is to be somewhat expected, coming out of a fantastic place like
Franciscan University. I mean, I go from three Masses a day to 7am only (and I
am not a morning person)… from a tight-knit, passionately Catholic young adult
community to a parish that is nice, but certainly not as passionate, and quite
lacking in young adults… from being continuously formed and supported, to leading others, to being the one who does a lot of the forming and supporting... from a place that fosters holiness to a place where
you have to put up much more of a fight. You get the idea.
I’ve also blamed myself a lot for my spiritual state, and I’m
sure there is a lot to that: to my own sins, failings, laziness, pride, lack of
motivation, and more. I am always cut to the heart when I read these words:
“Moreover,
you have endurance and have suffered for my name, and you have not grown weary.
Yet I hold this
against you: you have lost the love you had at first. Realize how far you have fallen.” –Revelation 2:3-5
Ouch. But it’s a good heart check, for sure. Jesus, keep me
in love with you.
My realization of today builds upon this experience of
dryness and struggle, plus another realization from the other day. I was looking
through old journals, particularly those I’ve written since Franciscan, and I
noticed something. As I read, it didn’t seem like I had a spiritually dry life
at all! Of course there were ups and downs, but nothing out of the ordinary. I
had written down oodles and oodles of quotes from Scripture and the saints that
God had used to speak to me; I thanked him over and over for the people in my
life and the experiences he has given me; it was clear that he gave me just what I needed each day,
when I needed it, as long as I slowed down long enough to recognize it! Yet, my
overwhelming experience has been dryness. At that point, I was just confused. I
also wondered if I was a whiny little brat, saying “God, you don’t talk to me!!”
when clearly, he does. This could totally be true… but today, I got another
answer.
Let's start with a basic spiritual premise: we all thirst for God! There’s the classic St. Augustine
quote, “You have made us for yourself, O Lord, and our hearts are restless
until they rest in you.” Without God, we are not satisfied… we can never be
satisfied without our Maker, our Lover (cue the “God-shaped hole in our hearts”
explanation here). Without the one who gave us life, we have no life! So of course we feel dead without him. We thirst for him (the incredible thing is
that he also thirsts for us – see John 19:28, as well as the reflections of Bl.
Mother Teresa – but that is another story altogether).
What I realized today goes something like this: without
water, we thirst, and eventually, we die. But do we need to drink water more
than once? Of course! Just because I have a drink of water yesterday doesn’t
mean that I won’t be thirsty again today – that would be ridiculous!
This is how it works with God, too. If I experience him
yesterday, I still need him today! I don’t just want the memory of him, or knowledge
about him… I want his presence now, too. Whenever I’m not close to God, I’m
thirsty, to the point of pain (how clearly I can diagnose this pain, or how
much I try to numb it away with other things, is a different story for another
day). And whenever I am with him, I want to go deeper. We can never get enough of God.
And I think this is why I feel like my life, overall, has
been so dry. Because if I’m not tasting the sweetness of God at this very
moment, this exact second in time, I am thirsty for it. And we can’t always feel God – not in this life,
anyway.
How does this work with Jesus’ words to the Samaritan woman
at the well, that “whoever drinks the water I shall give will never thirst; the
water I shall give will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal
life” (John 4:14)? To be honest, I don’t know. I think it may have something to
do with being temporal beings. We haven't made it to eternity yet!
Maybe therein lies the key. Until that day of perfect bliss, of being totally united with Christ, I’m going to continue to feel
the separation keenly. I want to see the face of God, but I can't yet! My spiritual life isn't a total wasteland, as I've thought; I'm just not in heaven yet.
St. John of the Cross, St. Therese of Lisieux, Bl. Mother
Teresa of Calcutta, pray for us.
“For I've been here
before
But I know there's still more”
But I know there's still more”
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